Haven't you heard people say they just can't seem to finish the work they take up? Well, meet Nikky. She is one of them. Nikky, do you know why you find it tough to accomplish projects that you undertake? The main problem lies in lack of prioritisation. More often than not, you end up biting more than you can chew. In other words, you take up more number of jobs than you are capable of handling.
Besides, there is a lack of discipline in your life because of which even some urgent tasks go ignored and unfinished. Every morning you start your day with a lot of plans. But when you come back at the end of it, you realise you have not done anything at all. You think your day has been "wasted without any work". Because this has been happening day after day and week after week, you have become utterly unhappy with your performance and believe that you are an "under-achiever".
Now let's see how you deal with the world with so much criticism for yourself. Most of the time you fret, you complain, you crib. And if the recipient of your words is someone very close to you, he or she is sure to taste your tangy tongue. Yes, you take out your anguish on your near ones. Sometimes even you don't realise how pungent your words are. But you seem to enjoy giving it back to others for no fault of theirs.
Nikky, your handwriting indicates that most of the problems with the execution of your numerous plans is your lack of discipline. You need to understand that you can't do just about every thing. Nobody can. Therefore, it's necessary for you list your plans that are feasible in your current situation. Then, as I have mentioned above, comes the issue of prioritisation. You can finish your work and diminish the level of frustration only when you take up one job at at time.
I am sure you are not at all interested in listening to some good things about you as well. So, I won't touch upon that area.
Ok. Don't fret. I am telling you. See, just these two lines irritated you a bit. One of the very good things about you is... ummm... well.... hmmm....
You know what it's too hard. But I am trying. I won't give up. I am a persistent fella. Wish me luck. So, here they are:
You are a very quick thinker who can size up a situation fast and learn new skills quite speedily. You like an independent life without any interference from anyone whatsoever. However, it is paradoxical that for many of your decisions, you bank on the suggestion of others. You are an amazing talker and can write well.
I recommend for you a graphotherapy exercise which should first eliminate your habit to taking up more than you can handle and put in some discipline in your day-to-day life. The exercise will soon reach you via email.
All the best!
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Nikky's comment:
[16 February 2009 15:01PM]
Thanks Vishwas for coming to the rescue again.I totally agree when you say i get irritated too easily..infact..just toooooo easily.i have hope it will not be that way for long.And as for being fiercely independent..yes i am..Sometimes too much for my own good.I am already on the highway to a more disciplined life.Thanks again.
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