I’m bad, I’m worse, I’m worst

BY VISHWAS HEATHCLIFF

Ladies, I’ve a question for you. (Men are welcome to try this out as well.) Answer honestly. When you stand in front of a mirror, what do you have to say about your body? “Umm… I just look fit ’n’ fine and a few extra pounds (or the lack of it) aren’t a big deal. I may not look stunning, but it’s ok…”

Or the moment you see your mirror image your body slouches, your shoulders droop, you start finding fault with yourself and you hear a nasty voice coming from within: “Ah! I wish I were curvier and taller, my abs were like a flat terrain, my hair a little longer, my eyes little bigger and blah, blah, blah…”

In short, you either love or hate yourself. If you batter yourself in private for “not being up to the mark” in any sphere of life and incessantly blame yourself for every thing that goes wrong, chances are you cut your lower case t’s low on the stem (pic A). A low t-bar indicates low self-esteem, which hacks your self-confidence.

So folks, raise your t-bars (pic B) and feel your self-worth skyrocket. The stroke change will not alter the world around you, but it’ll enable you to like and love yourself the way you are. If you accept yourself unconditionally, others will also appreciate you. Besides, a healthy self-image will see you through many odds. Try it.

ANKIT & HIS ANGER
This week we’re analysing the handwriting (pic C) of a reader Ankit, a resident of Vikas Puri. He’s a cool and collected person who is always ruled by judgment, and not emotions. He has a good memory power, but he’s not attentive to details. Currently, Ankit is facing a great deal of uncertainty about issues concerning future. Also, he’s stressed and angry with his intimate relationships and unsure about how to handle them. He’s hiding from others the reasons behind the anxiety and refuses to open up.

Ankit’s handwriting also reveals he has an acute inclination towards alternative sexuality, which is shown by your desire to break away from social norms. Fearing ostracisation, he’s become secretive about it, because of which he is undergoing continuous mental strain. The bottom line is that Ankit is not happy with the way things are going on in his personal life and intimate relationships, which is making his utterly aggressive.

POP A PEN KILLER
Ankit, write “I will get going and have my way” on ruled paper for a month. Write on every alternate line and do keep a margin of one inch on the left. Raise the placement of your t-bars and while writing y’s and g’s, get rid of the angularity in lower zone (pic D) and make it round (pic E). It’ll be extremely difficult for you to make the letters round, but don’t give up. Try.

Besides, make the second name in your signature legible. The exercise will help you diminish the anger that consumes most of your energy and puts you into conflicting situations. It’ll also ensure that the issues you’re facing with your sexuality vanishes — to a great extent. All the best!

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