How you can see red in a green-eyed monster

October 4, 2009
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Green-eyed monsterGreen is the colour of life. It signifies calmness, renewal, health and growth. But this lively hue becomes deathly at one place — in eyes. It’s Jealousy. The nasty feeling begins to hurt and starts to ruin. It devours relationships and creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate and fear. It’s a devastating emotion and it’s difficult to deal with a jealous person. Jealousy makes the person detestable and repulsive. Like all of you, I am yet to meet a person who wants to be jealous or who wants to deal with a jealous. But all of us sometimes get jealous or meet a jealous.

In relationships, jealousy is caused when one partner begins to see a hidden communication line between the other partner and the “secret lover”. The enigma causes the pain because the communication line is unknown. If it were known, maybe you won’t feel jealous.

Jealous Woman

Anmol was angry with his girlfriend, Devyani. He thought she was cheating on him, as he had seen her with a guy from her office a few times. “It’s time to put an end to this relationship,” he told himself before calling her to a coffee shop one day.

“I think you’re getting too friendly with Palash,” he said to Devyani.

“You want me to stop talking to my colleagues?” Devyani retorted.

“I know goddammit he’s you colleague, but what project were you working on with him yesterday in the shopping mall?”

“He is a friend. Can’t I go out with him?”

“But why only Palash? There are many other guys…”

“Because we are good friends and understand each other well…”

“Wow! In that case, why don’t you go to him? He’ll understand you better, for sure,” Anmol said.

“What’s your fucking problem, man? You don’t know the truth. Just stop being jealous…”

“Jealous? Me? My foot!” Anmol screamed and hurled a ball of crumpled paper napkin at her face before stomping out of the coffee shop. Their relationship probably ended there. If not, at least it became hurtful and irreparable.

I guess the the story sounds familiar to all of us. Although Anmol denied being jealous, we know he was. He thought there was a hidden communication line between Devyani and Palash, which made him think: “Will she find someone better than me?” “Is she going to leave me?” “Does she think I’m unattractive?”

In handwriting analysis, jealousy is reflected by a tight and small circled loop at the beginning of a letter. Such writers fear the loss of someone’s love and therefore, they become very possessive.

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  • deepa

    Good article. :-[ :-[

  • Nidhi

    This is what Carl Jung wrote about jealousy:

    “It frequently happens that women who do not really love their husbands (wives) are jealous and destroy their friendships. They want the husband (wife) to belong entirely to them because they themselves do not belong to him (her). The kernel of all jealousy is lack of love.Home

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Although I discuss one handwriting feature or stroke at a time in my articles, one should take into account all aspects of the handwriting before arriving at a conclusion about a personality