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		<title>Handwriting slant reveals why some people always appear cold, emotionless</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Sep 2011 10:44:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mythili Ravi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some people always appear cold, emotionless and unfriendly. Look at the slant of his their handwriting. They might be left-slant writers.Left slant handwriting indicates that the writer might have had a tough childhood...]]></description>
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		<title>If I were a bully I&#8217;d have got hold of your neck and said: Read this article or perish</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Sep 2011 08:20:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A bully is not difficult to find. There is  cyber bully, school bully and also workplace bully. According to graphology, bullies write t-bars in a certain way, and press hard against the paper. You can know more about them in this article.]]></description>
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		<title>‘I feel very lonely… can’t live like this’</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 23:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Handwriting analysis of a girl who subconsciously created a distance between herself and others. As a result, she felt as if were stranded on an island, all by herself...]]></description>
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		<title>Are you really as cool as friends say you are? Your handwriting will tell you</title>
		<link>http://www.writechoice.co.in/writechoice/index.php/2009/07/sensitivity-in-handwriting-analysis/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 21:24:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Using handwriting analysis, it's easy to conduct sensitive person test &#038; spot highly sensitive people. Very sensitive people will make you walk on eggshells.]]></description>
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		<title>Does your head wear pants at home? Or is it the heart?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 13:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many people write with a straight slant. Graphology says straight handwriting slant means that the writer is ruled by head and he is rational. Such writers rarely make impulsive moves.]]></description>
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		<title>Our dear Miss Porter likes to carry only one thing: some baggage from past</title>
		<link>http://www.writechoice.co.in/writechoice/index.php/2009/01/past-baggage/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2009 13:25:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Despite efforts, many people can't just stop thinking about their past all the time. A specific feature in their handwriting reveals whether they are stuck in their past...]]></description>
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		<title>Sorry, Miss Emotion, I am surely not in love with you</title>
		<link>http://www.writechoice.co.in/writechoice/index.php/2008/11/handwriting-pressure-analysis-know-how-emotional-you-are/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 20:18:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Want to know how emotional or sentimental a person is? Just look at his handwriting pressure. Handwriting pressure analysis reveals how powerful emotions are]]></description>
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		<title>If your handwriting always travels downhill, it could be a sign of depression</title>
		<link>http://www.writechoice.co.in/writechoice/index.php/2008/09/depression-or-sadness-in-handwriting-analysis/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 04:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Depression in handwriting: Handwriting analysis is amazing. Even before you talk about your sadness, it starts showing signs of it. If one is depressed, handwriting usually goes downhill]]></description>
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		<title>She feels people’s eyes on her all the time</title>
		<link>http://www.writechoice.co.in/writechoice/index.php/2008/08/selfconscious/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 16:29:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are few things as self-limiting as self-consciousness. It hinders one's spontaneity like nothing else. Let's find out what it looks in handwriting...]]></description>
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		<title>You&#8217;re well-placed or placed in a well?</title>
		<link>http://www.writechoice.co.in/writechoice/index.php/2008/06/youre-well-placed-or-placed-in-a-well/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 12:51:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are goof for a PR Job or a desk job? This article will answer that question...]]></description>
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		<title>You love people if you like to write to the right</title>
		<link>http://www.writechoice.co.in/writechoice/index.php/2008/05/right-slant-in-handwriting/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 May 2008 13:47:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Right slanted handwriting is common. If handwriting slants to the right, it means the writer is an outgoing person. Learn more about right slant in handwriting]]></description>
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		<title>Race in reverse gear</title>
		<link>http://www.writechoice.co.in/writechoice/index.php/2008/05/race-in-reverse-gear/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 14:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[BY VISHWAS HEATHCLIFF Guys, I’m sad today. (Don’t go by the grin in my picture above.) I’m indeed upset. Reason: Shefali said no. Not to me, yaar! She turned down the marriage proposal of my best friend Lundroo who is quite perturbed. My pal had proposed to her about a couple of years ago and she had rejected him in a flash. You may wonder why Lundroo is disturbed about something that happened a long time ago. I agree with you. But he still thinks about Shefali and is unable to leave her behind. As a friend, I feel sad to see Lundroo playing Devdas. Many of you will agree that it’ll be appropriate to convince Lundroo into forgetting the rejection and move on, because the tendency to live in the past not only screws up one’s assessment of the present, but also cripples the planning for the future. Many Mirror readers confide in me about how they are haunted by their past (mostly failure in business, broken trust, cheating by partners etc) and they keep thinking about it. Lundroo is in a similar situation. He is unable to forget Shefali. Had he tried, he’d have found another partner by [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stage fright is not right</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 14:32:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This Republic Day I went to meet a friend Nidhi at Vile Parle to make peace with her: she was angry because I hadn’t met her since she shifted to Mumbai five months ago. Her ultimatum was: if I didn’t come to her house on January 26, which was also her birthday, she’d never speak to me. Nidhi and her husband Sanoj were at home, but their daughter Srija had gone out to participate in an R-Day function. We were busy chatting when loud thuds on the door disrupted our conversation. Nidhi opened the door to find Srija standing there with her eyes red and overflowing. “What happened, darling?” a worried Nidhi asked her. After a few minutes, the story unfolded. I’ll recapitulate: At the function, Srija was supposed to deliver a speech, for which she had rehearsed well. But when she walked on the stage, she realised she couldn’t utter a word even as a number of people had fixed their gaze at her. “I just didn’t know what to speak. I forgot every thing. Some boys in the back row were sniggering. It was so embarrassing, Ma…” “Never mind, sweetie&#8230;” Nidhi comforted her. Later, I saw Srija’s handwriting [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mind is like mad nomad</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 14:12:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[BY VISHWAS HEATHCLIFF We know it’s very difficult to control the mind. Ask students how frustrated they feel when they can’t concentrate on their studies despite trying too hard. Many young readers, in their letters to Write Choice, tell me they’re fed up with their mind playing truant, especially when they try to focus. As soon as they begin to concentrate, their mind wanders off and they realise it only after a few minutes. Consciously, they bring it back to their books, but like an unruly kid it again tiptoes out of the room. No wonder then that to describe the uncontrollable restlessness of mind, Swami Vivekananda has compared it to a maddened monkey made to drink freely of wine and stung by a scorpion. In handwriting analysis, lack of concentration is reflected by a few strokes, such as i and j dots and t-bars. Their placement and shapes or absence, for that matter, manifest an individual’s level of concentration. Another indicator is the size of the writing. A large writing shows a writer’s inability to concentrate, while a small handwriting, such as Einstein’s (pic A), reflects on the capacity to focus. Many readers ask me how they can improve [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Shop till you drop&#8230; dead</title>
		<link>http://www.writechoice.co.in/writechoice/index.php/2008/05/shop-till-you-drop-dead/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 14:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[BY VISHWAS HEATHCLIFF &#8220;God! My credit card bills are becoming a real pain, Akriti, they just don’t seem to end&#8230;” “Control your spending, Sneha.” “I’ll surely do that, but what do I do about the never-ending bills? It’s too huge. Why the @#$% did I buy these Ritu Kumar clothes and these expensive…?” “Babe, relax! Take a loan at a cheaper rate and pay it back…” “Goddammit, I feel like destroying all the cards and running away.” “You’ll be asking for more trouble…” “Ya&#8230; after I pay back my outstanding, I swear I’ll never use my card again…” These are the snippets of a conversation between two girls, which I overheard in the office elevator last week. Like many people, Sneha didn’t handle her credit responsibly and now she was writhing in financial distress. While in debt, some default on the loan, whereas others like Sneha reluctantly decide to pay back the dues. The first type is special; we’ll talk about them later. Today, we’ll discuss people who allow their expenses to ball out of control and then face financial difficulty. Some months ago, a Bandra businessman came to meet me to know why he always found himself in credit [...]]]></description>
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		<title>There’s no way I can take no</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 13:15:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[BY VISHWAS HEATHCLIFF No is a scary word. Nobody wants to take it for an answer. But no one has ever escaped it — they want it or not. Some get a no and move on, accepting it as a part of life. However, for many it’s anathema and they avoid all who are likely to say the bitter word. In short, they abhor disapproval and therefore detest making efforts even for things they badly want. My friend Hari is one of them. He liked Pinky but could never ask her out because he thought she might refuse. He feared that if she didn’t agree to see him and others got to know about his “rejection”, his reputation will be “harmed” and he’ll be “ridiculed”. The fear of “rejection” and subsequent “loss of reputation” always bugged him. Besides, Hari could never convince himself that others had really better things to do than finding out how many women he was hitting on or whether he was gay. (And to tackle those nosey few, I frequently suggested him to make use of his middle finger. He never did.) Anyway, Pinky waited for him for a few months to take the initiative. When [...]]]></description>
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		<title>May I know if it’s yes or no?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 13:10:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vishwas Heathhcliff</dc:creator>
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