{"id":12843,"date":"2017-03-23T16:06:40","date_gmt":"2017-03-23T10:36:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/writechoice.co.in\/writechoice\/?p=12843"},"modified":"2020-07-20T10:02:59","modified_gmt":"2020-07-20T04:32:59","slug":"are-you-always-nice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.writechoice.co.in\/writechoice\/are-you-always-nice\/","title":{"rendered":"Why It’s Not Good to Be Too Nice to Everyone All the Time"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Always<\/a><\/p>\n

“Be nice to everyone.”<\/p>\n

I bet each of us has heard this as a kid. Parents, teachers, everyone told us that. They never ran out of breath while emphasising how important it is to be nice \u2014 all the time.<\/p>\n

There is nothing wrong with people who are nice. On the contrary, it’s nice to be nice to people. That makes you a likable person<\/a>. But have you come across people who are excessively nice all the time? Do you like such people? I think most people will say no.<\/p>\n

Nice or\u00a0nauseating?<\/h3>\n

There\u2019s a subtle line between being nice and too<\/em> nice. It gets irritating when some agrees with all your viewpoints, showers you with compliments no matter how badly you have done a job, and laughs at everything you say\u00a0without pausing to check whether it’s funny or not. Do you find such people nice or nauseating?\u00a0The latter, I guess.<\/p>\n

In this article, you will learn why people feel the need to be excessively nice to others all the time and how this personality trait appears in handwriting.<\/p>\n

Why always be nice?<\/h3>\n

Because they want validation from them. They are afraid of social failures. To ensure they don’t fail, they express excessive humility.<\/p>\n

Also, they have very little faith in themselves, and they don’t appreciate what they have. Therefore, they constantly look for approval.\u00a0In short, they lack self-esteem.<\/p>\n

\"Looking<\/a>

Looking for approval?<\/p><\/div>\n

There are several ways in which the lack of self-esteem is manifested in handwriting. We will discuss three of them in this article:<\/p>\n

#1. Size of the PPI<\/h3>\n

It is important for everyone to know that PPI, or personal pronoun I, is a key aspect of your handwriting.\u00a0There are several ways to write the PPI, and most of them could be graphologically perfect.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, many variants of the PPI could indicate the writer’s low self-esteem. One of them is lowercase i<\/strong> in place of the capital I<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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According to handwriting analysis<\/a>, a small or lower case PPI indicates that the writer has a poor self-esteem and he underestimates his abilities. He lacks the courage to speak his mind.<\/p>\n

#2. Low t-bar<\/h3>\n

In handwriting, a low self-image<\/a> is also revealed by a low t-bar.<\/p>\n

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According to graphology<\/a>, The low t-bar reveals the writer doesn\u2019t have a great amount of ego strength about himself. Such a writer hardly finds good qualities in himself and is always self-critical, which degrades his sense of personal value.<\/p>\n

#3. Small capitals & signature<\/h3>\n

Signs of low confidence are often seen in handwriting where the size of capital letters\u00a0is small \u2014 just about the size of an average lower case letter.<\/p>\n

Also, a small signature, as we have said many times before especially in this article on signature analysis<\/a>, is also indicative of the lack of self-esteem.<\/p>\n

#4. They wear a funny smile<\/h3>\n

Yes, they always wear this funny smile, which they can never seem to wipe off. Just kidding.<\/p>\n

The bottom line: you are mistaken if you believe you can win over people by being nice to them all the time<\/em>. In fact, if you behave that way, you subconsciously tell the world about your weaknesses and lack of self-confidence.<\/p>\n

And believe me, nobody wants to befriend anyone without a backbone; not even those who have taken the vow to be eternally nice.<\/p>\n

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