{"id":15154,"date":"2020-03-05T23:18:26","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T17:48:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/writechoice.co.in\/writechoice\/?p=15154"},"modified":"2024-02-25T00:27:57","modified_gmt":"2024-02-24T18:57:57","slug":"bad-boss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.writechoice.co.in\/writechoice\/bad-boss\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You a Horrible Boss? Changing 1 Thing in Signature will Help"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\"  class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"data:image\/gif,GIF89a%01%00%01%00%80%00%00%00%00%00%FF%FF%FF%21%F9%04%01%00%00%00%00%2C%00%00%00%00%01%00%01%00%00%02%01D%00%3B\" data-layzr=\"https:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2019\/01\/bad_boss.jpg\" alt=\"bad boss\" width=\"894\" height=\"503\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Good bosses can be differentiated from bad bosses by the ways they make employees feel,&#8221; says a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebalancecareers.com\/why-employees-hate-you-1917713\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">career website<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>We all know how the work environment gets vitiated when employees develop animosity towards their supervisors.<\/p>\n<p>The biggest casualty of this intense dislike is productivity. Therefore, it&#8217;s necessary for the boss-employee relationship to be miles away from Hatredville.<\/p>\n<p>That is not to say the bosses are always at fault. But if most people on a team have the same feeling of animosity towards the boss, then it&#8217;s clear where the problem lies.<\/p>\n<p>If you have been labelled &#8220;bad&#8221; as a boss, chances are you will be the last one to know about it. So, allow us first to help you identify whether you are a bad boss.<\/p>\n<h4>3 signs you&#8217;re a bad boss<\/h4>\n<p>If you have not been able to figure out that you&#8217;re a bad boss, we will list out three things that will help you identify whether you&#8217;re someone the employees hate.<\/p>\n<h4>1. Your employees do not smile<\/h4>\n<div style=\"width: 928px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\"  class=\"\" src=\"data:image\/gif,GIF89a%01%00%01%00%80%00%00%00%00%00%FF%FF%FF%21%F9%04%01%00%00%00%00%2C%00%00%00%00%01%00%01%00%00%02%01D%00%3B\" data-layzr=\"https:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2019\/01\/bad_boss.png\" alt=\"bad boss\" width=\"918\" height=\"350\" \/><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Why isn&#8217;t any employee smiling?<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Yes, that&#8217;s the first sign. They just stop smiling around you. Even when they were quite happy just a second ago. As soon as your face shows up, they just stop.<\/p>\n<p>The interesting thing is that they don&#8217;t consciously decide to wipe off the smile; it happens automatically. After all, who wants to pretend to be happy around people they hate.<\/p>\n<h4>2. Their replies are short<\/h4>\n<p>&#8220;Yes&#8221;, &#8220;no&#8221;, &#8220;yeah&#8221;, &#8220;of course&#8221;, &#8220;will do&#8221;, &#8220;understood&#8221;, &#8220;fine&#8221;, &#8220;good&#8221;. If this is all you manage to elicit from most of your employees in response to your questions, you certainly own the &#8220;bad&#8221; tag.<\/p>\n<p>Employees who hate their bosses do not want to engage with them at any level.<\/p>\n<h4>3. They avoid eye contact<\/h4>\n<p>Employees who are angry and frustrated with you don&#8217;t want to look into your eyes because they fear that the eyes will a major giveaway of their hostility towards you. Subconsciously, people avoid eye contact with those they hate. It&#8217;s as simple as that.<\/p>\n<p>For the purpose of this article, I have chosen just three signs, but everyone who has worked with a bad boss can write at least 300.<\/p>\n<p>There is also an argument that it is not the responsibility of bosses to be liked by their employees. But Lynn Taylor, the author of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.in\/Tame-Your-Terrible-Office-Tyrant\/dp\/812652622X\/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1548514997&amp;sr=8-1-fkmr0&amp;keywords=Tame+Your+Terrible+Office+Tyrant%3A+How+to+Manage+Childish+Boss+Behavior+and+Thrive+in+Your+Job+Hardcover+%E2%80%93+July+20%2C+2009\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><em>Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant: How to Manage Childish Boss Behavior and Thrive in Your Job<\/em><\/a><em>, <\/em>says:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Your goal as a manager is not to be liked by everyone; if it is, you won&#8217;t be making the best decisions for the company. But if you&#8217;re an insensitive manager, no amount of intelligence or business skills will ever take you far in your own career advancement. You will always need a strong team and following to thrive in your career.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Clearly, the success of every supervisor depends on how efficient his subordinates are. So, it makes sense for a boss to be not an asshole.<\/p>\n<div style=\"width: 820px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\"  class=\"\" src=\"data:image\/gif,GIF89a%01%00%01%00%80%00%00%00%00%00%FF%FF%FF%21%F9%04%01%00%00%00%00%2C%00%00%00%00%01%00%01%00%00%02%01D%00%3B\" data-layzr=\"https:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2020\/06\/bad_boss.jpg\" alt=\"bad boss\" width=\"810\" height=\"600\" \/><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Insensitive manager?<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Employees&#8217; performance in many ways is directly linked to the kind of relationship they enjoy with their supervisors. Nobody can be productive in a negative and hostile work environment.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you&#8217;re a boss causing hostility among your employees, some changes in your attitude and signature will not be a bad idea.<\/p>\n<h4>Improvement with signature change<\/h4>\n<p>I have discussed before in articles on <a href=\"https:\/\/writechoice.co.in\/writechoice\/signature-analysis\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">signature analysis<\/a> that many personality changes can be brought about through alterations in our signatures. In this article, I will talk about only one particular change.<\/p>\n<p>Before telling you what signature change I am going to suggest, it is important to specify what personality trait we are going to change.<\/p>\n<p>Supervisors are called bad bosses because of various unpleasant personality traits. One of them is lack of proper communication.<\/p>\n<p>A disliked boss does not communicate to his team members what he expects from them, which at the end of the day, raises the stress levels for everyone.<\/p>\n<p>An <a href=\"https:\/\/smallbusiness.chron.com\/effects-poor-communication-business-345.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">article<\/a> on the stress at workplace says:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>High-stress levels in the workplace are a huge sign that there are communication problems. Poor communication can create a feeling that everything on your to-do list is urgent, causing you and others to hurry, feel tense, overworked and have little-to-no sense of humor.<\/p>\n<p>Good communication causes a sense of stability and predictability, but lack of communication or unhealthy communication introduces a sense of fear that causes tension, which is counterproductive to efficiency.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In his mind, a bad boss is convinced he has communicated clearly, but the reality is that he rushes through the directives and instructions, giving very little clarity to his subordinates.<\/p>\n<p>As a result, when the final product reaches his table, the boss&#8217; expectations meet with disappointment, making him go on an angry rant about how inefficient and unproductive everyone in the team is.<\/p>\n<p>In my 14 years of experience as a handwriting analyst, I have seen that most supervisors with poor communication skills have illegible signatures. That&#8217;s what they need to change. They need to be make it legible.<\/p>\n<p>This single <a href=\"https:\/\/writechoice.co.in\/writechoice\/change-your-signature\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">change in the signature<\/a> will ensure the supervisor communicates effectively with his team members, tells them clearly what results he expects, and how he wants things done.<\/p>\n<h4>Understanding illegible signature<\/h4>\n<div style=\"width: 377px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2011\/08\/illegible-signature.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\"  class=\"\" src=\"data:image\/gif,GIF89a%01%00%01%00%80%00%00%00%00%00%FF%FF%FF%21%F9%04%01%00%00%00%00%2C%00%00%00%00%01%00%01%00%00%02%01D%00%3B\" data-layzr=\"https:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2011\/08\/illegible-signature.jpg\" alt=\"Illegible signature\" width=\"367\" height=\"254\" \/><\/a><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Illegible signature<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Let&#8217;s now understand what <a href=\"https:\/\/writechoice.co.in\/writechoice\/illegible-signature\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">illegibility in signature<\/a> reveals about the person.<\/p>\n<p>There are two principal reasons why a person has an illegible signature. One, his mind is faster than his hands. And second, he is hoity-toity rascal who seems tell others:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLook, I don\u2019t care whether you can read my signature or not. I am just too busy to be bothered by that. I have no time for you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you are a boss and you sign like this, it will be difficult for you to have a great relationship with your team members.<\/p>\n<p>Incidentally, this type of signature also reveals that the writer is in a hurry most of them time and does not slow down to communicate lucidly. Additionally, he or she is more prone to making mistakes.<\/p>\n<div style=\"width: 872px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif,GIF89a%01%00%01%00%80%00%00%00%00%00%FF%FF%FF%21%F9%04%01%00%00%00%00%2C%00%00%00%00%01%00%01%00%00%02%01D%00%3B\" data-layzr=\"https:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2019\/01\/busy-boss.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"862\" height=\"241\"><p class=\"wp-caption-text\">I\u2019m too busy to slow down.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>According to graphologist <a href=\"http:\/\/www.practical-handwriting-analysis.com\/2008\/12\/legible-vs-illegible-signature\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Fiona MacKay Young<\/a>, legible means the writer is interested in communicating, illegible means he is not.<\/p>\n<p>Bosses with illegible handwriting or signature do not care about employees at all. Hardly an attitude someone in a supervisory role can afford to have, wouldn&#8217;t you say?<\/p>\n<h4>Conclusion<\/h4>\n<p>If you are a boss with an illegible signature, make it legible from today itself.<\/p>\n<p>If poor communication can impact stress levels, deadlines, morale and health, then good communication can have a positive and healing effect.<\/p>\n<p>By making the change, you will not only feel the change in yourself but also see improvement in your employees&#8217; attitude towards you. They will be friendlier and more communicative with you.<\/p>\n<p>And if you find that your boss has an illegible signature, find a way to bell the cat and let him know he should try changing his signature.<\/p>\n<div class=\"6587ada91bcda6cf6e3707e649b65b83\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px;\">\n<div id=\"fb-root\"><\/div>\r\n<script async defer src=\"https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_GB\/sdk.js#xfbml=1&version=v3.2\"><\/script>\r\n\r\n<div class=\"fb-like\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/MyWriteChoice\/\" data-layout=\"standard\" data-action=\"like\" data-size=\"large\" data-show-faces=\"false\" data-share=\"false\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The work environment gets vitiated when employees develop animosity for their supervisors. 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