{"id":2247,"date":"2009-10-04T18:38:03","date_gmt":"2009-10-04T13:08:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/writechoice.co.in\/writechoice\/?p=2247"},"modified":"2024-02-25T12:44:59","modified_gmt":"2024-02-25T07:14:59","slug":"jealousy-in-handwriting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.writechoice.co.in\/writechoice\/jealousy-in-handwriting\/","title":{"rendered":"Jealousy in Handwriting: Just 1 Handwriting Stroke Reveals Jealousy"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Feeling jealous? You may spot your partner’s jealousy in handwriting.<\/p><\/div>\n

Detecting jealousy in handwriting<\/h5>\n

Jealousy is a devastating emotion and we all know it\u2019s difficult to deal with a jealous person. Jealousy devours relationships and creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate and fear. It makes the person detestable and repulsive.<\/p>\n

In relationships, jealousy is caused when one partner begins to see a hidden communication line between the other partner and the \u201csecret lover\u201d.<\/p>\n

The enigma causes the pain because the communication line is unknown. If it were known, maybe you won\u2019t feel jealous.<\/p>\n

Anmol was angry with his girlfriend, Devyani. He thought she was cheating on him, as he had seen her with a guy from her office a few times.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s time to put an end to this relationship,\u201d he told himself before calling her to a coffee shop one day.<\/p>\n

\u201cI think you\u2019re getting too friendly with Palash,\u201d he said to Devyani.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou want me to stop talking to my colleagues?\u201d Devyani retorted.<\/p>\n

\u201cI know goddammit he\u2019s you colleague, but what project were you working on with him yesterday in the shopping mall?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHe is a friend. Can’t I go out with him?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBut why only Palash? There are many other guys\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBecause we are good friends and understand each other well\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cWow! In that case, why don\u2019t you go to him? He\u2019ll understand you better, for sure,\u201d Anmol said.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhat\u2019s your fucking problem, man? You don’t know the truth. Just stop being jealous\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cJealous? Me? My foot!\u201d Anmol screamed and hurled a ball of crumpled paper napkin at her face before stomping out of the coffee shop.<\/p>\n

Their relationship probably ended there. If not, at least it became hurtful and irreparable.<\/p>\n

I guess the the story sounds familiar to all of us. Although Anmol denied being jealous, we know he was. He thought there was a hidden communication line between Devyani and Palash, which made him think:<\/p>\n

“Will she find someone better than me? Is she going to leave me? Does she think I\u2019m unattractive?”<\/p>\n

Jealousy in Handwriting Analysis<\/h4>\n
\"Jealousy

Jealousy in handwriting<\/p><\/div>\n

In handwriting analysis<\/a>, jealousy is reflected by a tight and small circled loop at the beginning of a letter. Such writers fear the loss of someone\u2019s love and therefore, they become very possessive.<\/p>\n

If a lover with poor self-image (low t-bars, small capitals) has these tiny loops, he\u2019ll become an insecure person like Anmol. He\u2019ll always fear that if he loses this girlfriend, he won\u2019t get someone as \u201cgood\u201d as her.<\/p>\n

Apparently, green-eyed people suck. But in moderation, jealousy is<\/em> sexy. Some partners enjoy it because when one gets jealous, the other feels wanted. A little bit of it, I think, adds some spice to our lives.<\/p>\n

Feeling of being watched<\/h4>\n

But dealing with an extremely jealous<\/a> or possessive person is stifling. You feel like you are being watched all the time.<\/p>\n

The fear of explaining to your partner a few minor aberrations, such as a delay in coming home, an out-of-the-turn meeting in office and a sudden get-together near your workplace, weakens all bonding and flushes out the romantic chemistry.<\/p>\n

And then the obvious happens: people start lying to their partners.<\/p>\n

The situation gets worse if the green-eyed monster is resentful and has subconscious anger against the opposite sex. In that case, he can use physical force to prevent the object of his affection from “going away” from him.<\/p>\n

Dealing with jealous partner<\/h4>\n
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Jealousy in handwriting: Narrow beginning loops combined with low self-esteem and resentment could make jealous person become violent.<\/p><\/div>\n

Now that you have seen jealousy in handwriting, the next question is: how does one deal with a spouse or boyfriend\/girlfriend who is jealous?<\/p>\n

Relationship experts often advise that\u00a0if you are jealous, you need to talk. You need to stop assuming and ask questions.<\/p>\n

Imagine Anmol saying this to Devyani, “I don\u2019t want to feel this jealousy. I want to get rid of it by asking you a question. All right? Good. So, do you like Palash?”<\/p>\n

And then hear Devyani saying, “Goodness! He just wanted to go out with us because his girlfriend had dumped him that day. I love you like crazy!”<\/p>\n

Bang! The hidden communication is revealed. The mystery is resolved. Anmol feels much better.<\/p>\n

Similarly, Devyani could have told Anmol one day: “I’m meeting this friend Palash for lunch. I want to introduce you to him. Please join us. No, in fact, you have<\/em> to join us.”<\/p>\n

The equation in a relationship could dramatically improve if communication is clear and partners tell each other how they feel.<\/p>\n

Jealousy in handwriting: Conclusion<\/h4>\n

Using graphology as a tool, you can spot jealousy in handwriting and then start working on it. If the jealousy loops discussed above co-exist with strokes reflecting low self-esteem<\/a> and resentment<\/a>, you have a real trouble at hand.<\/p>\n

In that case, even if you’re able to detect jealousy in handwriting, you will have a hard time making your partner understand about his\/her imaginary fears.<\/p>\n

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