Feeling jealous? You may spot your partner’s jealousy in handwriting.
Detecting jealousy in handwriting
Jealousy is a devastating emotion and we all know it’s difficult to deal with a jealous person. Jealousy devours relationships and creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate and fear. It makes the person detestable and repulsive.
In relationships, jealousy is caused when one partner begins to see a hidden communication line between the other partner and the “secret lover”.
The enigma causes the pain because the communication line is unknown. If it were known, maybe you won’t feel jealous.
Anmol was angry with his girlfriend, Devyani. He thought she was cheating on him, as he had seen her with a guy from her office a few times.
“It’s time to put an end to this relationship,” he told himself before calling her to a coffee shop one day.
“I think you’re getting too friendly with Palash,” he said to Devyani.
“You want me to stop talking to my colleagues?” Devyani retorted.
“I know goddammit he’s you colleague, but what project were you working on with him yesterday in the shopping mall?”
“He is a friend. Can’t I go out with him?”
“But why only Palash? There are many other guys…”
“Because we are good friends and understand each other well…”
“Wow! In that case, why don’t you go to him? He’ll understand you better, for sure,” Anmol said.
“What’s your fucking problem, man? You don’t know the truth. Just stop being jealous…”
“Jealous? Me? My foot!” Anmol screamed and hurled a ball of crumpled paper napkin at her face before stomping out of the coffee shop.
Their relationship probably ended there. If not, at least it became hurtful and irreparable.
I guess the the story sounds familiar to all of us. Although Anmol denied being jealous, we know he was. He thought there was a hidden communication line between Devyani and Palash, which made him think:
“Will she find someone better than me? Is she going to leave me? Does she think I’m unattractive?”
Jealousy in Handwriting Analysis
Jealousy in handwriting
In handwriting analysis, jealousy is reflected by a tight and small circled loop at the beginning of a letter. Such writers fear the loss of someone’s love and therefore, they become very possessive.
If a lover with poor self-image (low t-bars, small capitals) has these tiny loops, he’ll become an insecure person like Anmol. He’ll always fear that if he loses this girlfriend, he won’t get someone as “good” as her.
Apparently, green-eyed people suck. But in moderation, jealousy is sexy. Some partners enjoy it because when one gets jealous, the other feels wanted. A little bit of it, I think, adds some spice to our lives.
Feeling of being watched
But dealing with an extremely jealous or possessive person is stifling. You feel like you are being watched all the time.
The fear of explaining to your partner a few minor aberrations, such as a delay in coming home, an out-of-the-turn meeting in office and a sudden get-together near your workplace, weakens all bonding and flushes out the romantic chemistry.
And then the obvious happens: people start lying to their partners.
The situation gets worse if the green-eyed monster is resentful and has subconscious anger against the opposite sex. In that case, he can use physical force to prevent the object of his affection from “going away” from him.
Dealing with jealous partner
Jealousy in handwriting: Narrow beginning loops combined with low self-esteem and resentment could make jealous person become violent.
Now that you have seen jealousy in handwriting, the next question is: how does one deal with a spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend who is jealous?
Relationship experts often advise that if you are jealous, you need to talk. You need to stop assuming and ask questions.
Imagine Anmol saying this to Devyani, “I don’t want to feel this jealousy. I want to get rid of it by asking you a question. All right? Good. So, do you like Palash?”
And then hear Devyani saying, “Goodness! He just wanted to go out with us because his girlfriend had dumped him that day. I love you like crazy!”
Bang! The hidden communication is revealed. The mystery is resolved. Anmol feels much better.
Similarly, Devyani could have told Anmol one day: “I’m meeting this friend Palash for lunch. I want to introduce you to him. Please join us. No, in fact, you have to join us.”
The equation in a relationship could dramatically improve if communication is clear and partners tell each other how they feel.
Jealousy in handwriting: Conclusion
Using graphology as a tool, you can spot jealousy in handwriting and then start working on it. If the jealousy loops discussed above co-exist with strokes reflecting low self-esteem and resentment, you have a real trouble at hand.
In that case, even if you’re able to detect jealousy in handwriting, you will have a hard time making your partner understand about his/her imaginary fears.
Disclaimer: One element of handwriting may be analysed at a time, but always look at the entire handwriting sample before arriving at any conclusion.
